You grew in our hearts...

You grew in our hearts...
YOU GREW IN OUR HEARTS...

Thursday, July 14, 2016

We Finally Got It!!!

One of the best days of my life for sure!! July 11th, 2016, sitting at my desk at work and of course every 30 minutes I'm looking at my phone. I have been needing a new phone for months because the sound for my ringer or text message does not work. I see a missed call from area code "336" and my heart skips a beat or two. 336 is the area code for Greensboro, NC where our agency is located. I immediately hit redial and the receptionist picks up. I ask to speak to Anna and she puts me on hold. Ana comes on the phone and is happy to hear from me! She states that she was just now calling Will and had left me a voice mail. Two minutes later I conference Will on the phone so we can all hear what she wants to tell us. She finally states that she has very exciting news and our referral has been released from IBESR!!!! She goes on to tells us his name, age, and birthday. While on the phone she sends us both an email with three pictures and a 40+ page attachment of legal documents, his history (medical/phych) and some information on his mother. When the call ends, I'm pretty much speechless and full of so much emotion. I could not focus at work for the rest of the day. It's been 27 1/2 months since we entered IBESR, 3 years since we started this process! Even tonight, two days later it seems unreal because everyday it felt like it was never going to happen and it took so much strength to wait this long. We had an appointment with a pediatric physician who specializes in international adoption to review his medical records. The appointment went really well and we have no concerns about the health report we were given. We are now planning our bonding trip to Haiti...finally!! 


Below is the email from the agency. I have left out some of the personal information about the child until he is legally ours. 

Dear Will and Amorie,

I am happy to introduce you to...............................................from Maison de Anges Crèche! The information that we have received from IBESR has been translated and attached.

Please take time to review and discuss the information with a medical doctor as well as with each other over the next couple of days and then we can plan to talk on Wednesday. If you have additional questions we can ask IBESR or MDA if any other information is available, but this is typical of the referral information provided by Haiti.

IBESR gives families 15 days from when they receive the information to notify them of their intent to proceed with the referral or not and requires an official acceptance letter and notification of when the family can come to Haiti to begin the 2 week bonding period.

I look forward to working with you on this important next step in your adoption journey!

Congratulations!

Anna

Anna Hull
Post-Adoption Coordinator | Haiti Case Manager
Carolina Adoption Services  
336.275.9660 ext. 131 | 1.800.632.9312 | f: 336.273.9804
301 North Elm Street, Suite 201, Greensboro, NC 27401


6 comments:

  1. Congratulations!!!! I am so beyond excited for you and your husband!!! Payers that everything moves smoothly from this point forward!! Brandi

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  2. Congratulations! I have been following your blog for a few months and have been hoping and praying with you for your referral! We received our referral and traveled to meet our boys in April. Such a wonderful experience. I hope you get to meet your son soon!!

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    1. Thank you so much Amy. We can't wait, looks like we will be leaving near the end of August ;)

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  3. Dear Amorie,
    I have been following your blog since a lot of months because I am in a same situation as you: it is been 24 month since I entered IBSER. It was great to read you received finally the referral! That gave me a certain optimism! Thank you very much for sharing your adoption story.
    Marina

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  4. Hi Marina! Thank you for contacting me! Yes, we did receive our referral a few weeks ago, but we do not leave for Haiti until August 21st. Please stay hopeful because it will happen when you least expect. I know the wait is extremely hard and I heard it's even harder after the bonding trip. Which agency are you with? Are you I600 or I800? During the last few months of us waiting for our referral, we were in contacts with our agency almost every week asking for updates from our reps in Haiti, which may have help to push our case.

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